Thursday, July 30, 2015

Thankful Thursday

Things I'm Thankful For Today:
-Family visiting!

-Soccer class and how much Sky Loves it!


-The lovely flower situation I have going on, makes sitting outside and enjoying the weather so nice!

And to think I was worried I didn't plant enough of them in this planter. WOW! 

-The opportunity to stretch my wings and take on a new project. Not trying to be vague, but not ready to share yet either. Just something exciting in my life that I'm thankful for, and thankful to stretch my creative mind and see what I can do. 

-My garden, I just love watering, weeding, watching it grow, and harvesting. Sky is intrigued by it and loves helping me with it. 

-Finding a summer schedule that seems to be working so I can get my workout's in, and get everything else done. It'll change again in a few weeks when school starts, but for now I've got it going on. So much happier when I get to workout first thing! 

-Summer...hot weather...old friends...bbq's...living life outside. 

What are you Thankful For?

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Growing Pains

Parenting is one big exercise in getting our kiddos ready to live life without us really. It's all leading up to the day they walk out the door, and walk into their own life, in their own space, making all their own choices. It's our job to teach them how to think, be kind, and make good choices for themselves, and then set them free into the world.

I've noticed her beginning to pull away a bit the last few months. More alone time, more I'll do it myself's, more I don't want to play with you, and less cuddle time, less need for reassurance (usually in the form of a thumbs up) during swim class & soccer, calling me Mama instead of Mommy. I can see her growing into her own, strong, independent self.

Her alone time = hours of coloring in her room.


Even though her coloring time gives me time to myself to do things around the house I have to be honest and say it hurt a little when she looked up at me and said "Mommy can you just leave me alone".

I know she's only 4, but the tides are changing. I guess the timing is right...she'll be in school full time next year and I won't be around all day every day for her. I already miss the days of having her all to myself, and those days aren't even over yet.

It feels like I'm living life with a countdown clock. D Day is a little over a year from now when she starts kindergarten. I can't even imagine how much she'll change between now and then.

My focus...enjoy the moment, soak up every second I get to spend with her, say yes to every cuddle that does come my way. Once it changes, it's changed forever.

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Chipotle Chicken Tacos

You want to know something funny, my husband does not like the word chipotle. He likes the flavor and food that contains chipotle, but he does not like the word. I find it fascinating that he can like something, but not like having to say it or hear it being said.

Thankfully he did like this new recipe I tried last night from July's Food and Wine magazine. Monday is Mexican night, which usually always means my version of tacos, but last night I changed it up a bit so we could try something new.

Chipotle Chicken Tacos (click to visit the recipe).



A few notes:
- Don't be afraid of the cooking time, because most of that time is hands off, chicken cooking in the oven time. It was kind of nice actually. I put the chicken in, had a glass of wine, read a book while Sky colored, and enjoyed the 45 ish minutes of cooking time.

 -You can do all the chopping and prep for the rest of the meal (it's not much) while the chicken cools off enough to shred it.

-If cooking for kiddos as well then either use less chipotle (which I will do next time regardless...it's on the spicy side) or set some of the plain shredded chicken aside before mixing in with the chipotle. Which is what I did for Sky and just made her a chicken and cheese taco.

I think I'll try fresh, homemade tortilla's next time, but to keep this easy for a work night Trader Joes has the best white corn tortilla's around! Since there is 45 minutes of cooking time this may be a good option if there is a day that you're home early from work or work from home, or even a weekend if 45 minutes is going to make dinner way too late. Or, cook & shred the chicken on a weekend and save it for later in the week, because the rest of the prep/cooking takes very little time.

Overall this is a really quick, easy, yummy meal, even with the cook time for the chicken, that I'll be adding to our rotation of recipes.

Total side note...I'm so going to miss my fresh herbs. The store bought cilantro for these tacos was just not even close to being as good as what I've been growing. Impatiently waiting for the next batch to grow, and planning how to grow it year round, indoors. I can't wait to make my guacamole with "real" cilantro. That's the first thing I'm doing when this next batch of cilantro is ready!

Any favorite taco recipes out there that I should try?



Monday, July 27, 2015

Friends, Family, Wine

I don't think there is a better way to spend a weekend than with family you love, friends that are family, yummy food, good wine, lot's of sun, water, boats, and airplanes.

I have not been to the boat races (hydroplanes) in E WA in a very long time. I was trying to figure it out and the best guess is I was kid, like single digit to my age kid...so it's been a very, very long time.

Gosh I had so much fun hanging out at the river all day, watching the air show and the boats race past. Friday is the "free" day. It's the practice air show, and the time trials with only the last two races of the day being "real" races. Way less crowded for sure, and much more enjoyable for someone like me who doesn't really enjoy crowds.

Going Friday freed up Saturday for winery hopping...my favorite thing! My other favorite thing...coming home to cooler weather. The plants and garden are very happy indeed.

 Red Solo Cup of goodness! 

 Michelle and Sky

 Brilliant idea...moving our chairs into the river! 

F16 overhead...was so cool! 

 Rose at Tucannon Cellers

 14 Hands Winery...their reserve wines are amazing! The above pic is not a reserve wine, I had already tasted & purchased when Michelle & the girls and I stopped in on the drive over a few days before. 

The adult part of the gang enjoying 14 Hands on Saturday. So nice to have kid free time for all of us! 

 The girls enjoying the water feature at 14 Hands Thursday on the drive over. 

 Out of order, but this is how much fun Sky had at the river watching the boats! 

 Big glasses...the theme of the weekend. 

 Treveri Cellars is on the way to my Aunt and Uncles...it's my new favorite pit stop! Champagne cocktails for the win! 


Easily one of the most fun drives to E WA ever! Leaving early with the girls, and stopping along the way to enjoy ourselves was perhaps one of the best ideas ever. Not to mention all the entertainment coming out of the back seat with a Frozen sing along, and other fun and games. So much fun from start to finish. 

Thank you to Mark, Bob, and Michelle for sharing your pics!  

Tuesday, July 21, 2015

Slowing Down

Even though I had stuff to do every day last week, I also tried to slow down a lot. Just take a breath and enjoy summer at home. Most of our weekends are booked, with lot's of fun stuff, but I also want to enjoy summer at home, when it's gloriously wonderful in these parts. 

I'm also trying to savor the moments of "just the three of us" time since summer also brings lot's of fun with family and friends. Not complaining at all, just trying to keep a balance. A balance that also includes being open to last minute adventures with friends because we all happen to be home with no plans on a Saturday evening. 

It's been sort of nice because we have time to work on projects around the house together. Sky even gets into it....she's a good little worker when it's her idea! I'm particularly excited about the garden! 


The white containers and the standing herb garden have been planted and growing since early June. I have harvested the herbs over and over and they keep on a growing. It makes cooking so much fun! We are a little late to the game, but finally managed to get the square foot gardens built, and are trying to track down the materials needed to make the custom blend of compost, pet moss, and vermiculite that all but guaranties an amazing garden. 

I don't know if they will get planted this season (with some lovely starts I have my eye on at the local nursery) or if we will make sure they are ready to go for next springs planting, it just depends on what we find and when. Everything I've planted has done well so far, except for the lettuce. I think it may have gotten too hot or something because it's not growing at all. Nothing peeking up out of the dirt, and I was really looking forward to fresh salad right from the garden. Oh well. 

After working on the garden most of the weekend we took a break to visit Bass Pro Shop to get Mark's bow tuned and have a little food adventure along the way. 

 Playing in the boats at Bass Pro Shop keeps Sky happy for hours. She's a captain, a pirate, fishing, racing through the store, and navigating storms on the high seas...it's very entertaining. 

She loves watching him shoot!

Bebimbap

Sky has a book Be Bim Bop (the American spelling of the dish, it really is Bebimbap though) that she loves, and while I've made it at home from the recipe in the book, we thought it would be fun to visit a Korean BBQ and order the real deal. She wasn't super impressed and ate soup and dumplings instead, but Mark and I sure loved it. The rice had an extra crunch to it because it was served in a piping hot bowl that kept it hot and continued cooking it while we ate. So yummy! 


Seriously this is my idea of the perfect date night! My two favorite people, wine, steak, pretty flowers, and a comfortable summer evening outside. Yes, yes, yes! 

Loving this whole summer thing so far! 

Thursday, July 16, 2015

Thankful Thursday

A few things I'm thankful for today:

-Being home. I love our home, and our life, and while vacation is nice I just really love being home.

-That Sky's had VBS all week and is having a blast. I was a little worried about sending her because we are not particularly religious and don't attend services, but it's been a good mix of typical pre-school type stuff, science projects and having love and joy in your heart. Just good basic messages. And, it has allowed me to unpack, clean up, grocery shop, and put around all kiddo free!

 VBS Crazy Hair day.
VBS Mad Scientist Day

-For real, I went to the putting green and driving range with my MIL Jan, and had a blast. So glad we got to spend time together doing something fun!


I'll be turning pro next week. ;-)

-For a little girl that has more personality than her little body can contain. It keeps things interesting and entertaining! 


-Cooler temps! 

-Tuesday Night Run Group...love it! 

-I found a canned beer I like! Next weekend's activity is a glass free, so I needed to find beer in a can that I'm willing to drink, and this is it! Now I need to see if I can find in 4 or 6 packs rather singles. 


-For family & friends willing to water my flowers and garden while we were gone. I lost one flower box, but it was an at risk box from the start (don't buy clearance flowers at the beginning of the season, something is wrong if they are on clearance when they should be brand new!), and the garden and herbs are doing great! 

-Summer, I just really love summer. 

What are you thankful for? 

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

A Few Beautiful Things

I found myself dwelling on beauty while were were on vacation. Not the cosmetic kind, but the beauty around us, and in life in general. A few things I find beautiful:

-Choosing an authentic life rather than an easy life. I saw some of the happiest kiddos and family ever on this trip. Is it easy to make some of the choices made to live a life that's true to family values, spiritual beliefs, and financial goals...not always. But, in the harder life choices there was contentment, amazingly well behaved kids, a lot of loving family living in close proximity, and lot's of old fashioned fun. Beautiful family life indeed.

-Sky's (kids in general really) love of life. Embracing every opportunity for adventure given her, and not caring who's watching.

On stage drumming away without a care in the world. 

-Complete and total silence. The darkest darkness I've ever seen. Stars glowing bright overhead. The sound of a Night Hawk diving for dinner. Enjoying wonderful food, good wine, better conversation, and amazing sunsets from a mountaintop. 

-A really good cupcake, like the perfect cupcake! 


-Watching dreams be born. Not that we are getting her a horse, but it's sure fun watching her fall in love with them, and talk about being a rodeo queen or a roper. 

Blurry I know...my phone and blogger hate each other apparently. 

-Trying new things for the first time with cousins. She was a little scared of it, but a lot fascinated by it. 

Biggest Sparklers I've ever seen. 

-4th of July in a small town. Everyone should experience it at least once. The pride, the coming together of a small community to make it amazing, the food, flags, and fireworks. Small town red, white and blue is beautiful! 


-The patchwork quilt of farm land as far as the eye can see. All the greens, browns, tans coming together to make the perfect pattern. 


-Cuddles, your 4 year old telling you she loves you, it really is the best. 


-A planted vineyard, especially one that's soaked up your own sweat. Watching my aunt and uncle live out their dream in real life. 


-No cartoons, phone calls, movies, limited social media to distract us. Spending so much time reading, talking, just being together in peace and quiet without distraction.

-Coming home. There is no place as beautiful as this life we are living, the home we have created, and the little girl that helps us see life in fresh new ways. 

What do you find beautiful?

Monday, July 13, 2015

Vacation Recap - We're Back!

Wow, it's been a bit! I was not anticipating having zero internet connection for almost 3 weeks. Ok, well not zero, but we were so far out/off grid that what internet we could find was so slow you couldn't really do anything with it.

Our trip was actually two trips that ended up being to close together rather than come home for a few days, and drive across the state twice, we decided to add a 3rd part of the trip, to bridge the gap, and do a big old loop from W WA, down to SW Idaho to visit family, with a few stops in between.

Get ready for a long post (opted for one big vaca post rather than 3 posts about each portion of the trip) ton of pics (mostly Mark's with the camera, but some from my phone as well) and non of them edited...no time to do that. :)

First stop was Silver Line campground in Winthrop WA. We've stayed here before, and LOVE it! Very nice grounds, lovely lake, and if you get the right spots you have a huge open grassy area for kiddos to run around and play while enjoying a glass of wine, and view of the lake!

The view of the field, lake, and mountains from our spot.

My tip would be to get a spot along the open grassy field. The are not full hook up's though. Power and water only. So, for a longer trip, like ours, we walked over to the bathrooms/showers when at all possible. The trailer was reserved for Sky or middle of the not potty needs.

The only negative to this campground is the dump station is on the only road out, so when leaving on a weekend, you can end up waiting for a long time if trailers in front of you are lined up dumping (it blocks the road). We were there Wed-Tues, so left on an off day and it wasn't an issue for us at all.

If you've never been to Winthrop it's a fun little town to visit. Old west style, wooden boardwalks and store fronts, some great food options, bars, winery, and cider brewer.


 Cider Tasting

 Right smack in the middle of the apple orchard!


 Apple Cider Doughnuts 


 Sadly this summer is the last summer the tasting "room" will be in the orchard. They are moving to a location in town, and this tent will be for event's only. :( 




It was over 100 every day we were in Winthrop, that's just hot! Really hot! So we not only made use of the lake, but this blow up pool as well. We also spent a lot of time inside the trailer with the AC on, reading, coloring, and playing moose ball! 


 Moose Ball...it's a moose that pops bouncy balls out of his mouth when you squeeze his tummy. I put bowls and pans on the floor for us to try and get the balls into...Sky was actually really good at this game, and had a blast. 

 We picked one morning to hike up to a mountain lake. It was hot, but the water was glacier cold, so it was worth it. 


Yes Silas has his own camp chair. #spoileddog 

After we left Winthrop we drove up to Tonasket, WA to visit a friend that we met two years ago in Winthrop actually. He has a cabin on a mountain top about 10 miles outside of town, and we got to spend a few days there as a stop over before driving to ID. 

"Don't be too cold for me water!"

The view from the cooking area. 

Cowgirl Shower. There is no running water or electricity, so everything has to be hauled in, but you know what...it's totally 100% worth the effort. Peace, quiet, star gazing, and plenty of time to slow down and relax. We loved this stop on our trip so much! 


I don't know if she was singing or what, but she had so much fun with Dan O!

From Tonasket we made our way to Hermiston, OR (we took a round about way to skirt around wild fires) for the mid point in our journey to Melba, ID. 

I LOVED Melba so much. It's small, a few stop signs and tons of farm land. Acres and Acres of crop fields, with a few dairy farms, horse properties and vineyards thrown in. And, it pulled on my small-town heartstrings so much. I grew up small town, and it felt like going home. 

I don't think there is anything better than 4th of July in a small town. The level of excitement and patriotism is off the charts. Especially since Melba is known for being the best fireworks show around, even better than Boise! I have to say while Tacoma does a good job, Melba is much, much better. 

This trip was special for me. I grew up looking forward to the times my cousins were at my grandparents the same time we were, and that only happened every 3 or 4 years. But, the memories I have of playing away the summer days with them are memories that I treasure. It was pretty cool to see them as adults and see our kiddo's playing together and having fun like we did so long ago. 

Conveniently they all have home on the same big piece of property, and have great play spaces for the kiddos. After breakfast Sky would take off and we wouldn't see her again until dinner time. She LOVED it, and keeps asking about when she gets to go back. 

 She got her first BB Gun in ID. Don't worry she also has eye protection. 

 Pretty much that was the look on her face the whole time. This giant Mister is brilliant! 

 Waiting for the 4th of July parade to start with my cousins Sarah, and Becka

 Visiting my cousin Linda's cupcake shop, so yummy! 

 Waiting for fireworks to start. 

 Daniel and Sky...those two got along so well, and if I couldn't find Sky I just had to find Daniel and she was either with him, or he knew were she was.

 The parade was so much fun, and they threw candy at the kids so Sky has like 2lbs of candy to enjoy all summer long. Seeing the horses and rodeo royalty...that's how little girl dreams are started right there.

Minions! 

 Like most dogs, Silas did not like the fireworks or the thunder that came with a massive rain storm. He needed cuddles. 

 Sky was given some awesome books for her birthday, and they kept her busy most of the road trip. She loves to read! 

 Most of the crop field have these sheds in them, spaced out all throughout, and it took a few days before we came across one we could see in. They are bee hives! Pretty smart! I hare this only because I've never seen that before and thought it was kind of cool. 

 Like I said, dreams were started...riding Seven. 

Sky can't drive past a horse field without wanting to ride, and after the parade it was pretty clear we needed to try and make a horse ride happen. Thankfully my cousins know some horse people and arranged for Sky to have a ride and watch roping practice. Dallas, let Sky warm Seven up before they headed into practice. He taught her to neck rein, stop, and go backwards and was super patient with Sky. It was fascinating watching them practice and hearing the feedback and changes that each person needed to make, I learned a lot, and Sky would like a set or horns a rope to start practicing on. 

 This was the coolest (both in wow factor and temp) spot on the river ever. Perfect for a picnic, fishing, and beating the heat. The fish were biting like crazy and we all had a blast! 

 The sunset on the 4th, from the top of Mark's truck. So pretty! 

There are so many more pics I wanted to share, but per usual my phone and blogger are not playing well together, so they either didn't come through at all, or are really wonky. 

A few observations/tips about traveling this long, off the grid, in the heat, and with a 4 year old & dog:

-Something will go wrong, be ok with it and roll with it. We ended up at vets twice with Silas, he's fine, but you just can't get upset with the 3 hour delay of sitting in the emergency vet clinic. 

-When out and about outside dinning is a must with a dog. You can't take him inside, so base dinning options on outside eating area, or get it to go and find a park. That's good for the kiddo as well...burn energy at the park during lunch. Also, there will be handing off of the pet when strolling through town, and shopping. One of us was almost always waiting outside for the other and then we'd switch. Something to keep in mind when deciding if the pet is going on vaca with you or not.  

-We plan for 4 hours worth of miles per day, because 4 hours inevitably turns into 5 or 6 with potty breaks, dog vomit in the truck etc. We could have made it to Melba in one long 9 hour day, but that would not have been fun for Sky or Silas, and it's their vacation too. Same with the trip home from Melba, we could have done it again 9 or 10 hours, but not fun for all, and thankfully my aunt and uncle are pretty much exactly half way, so we stopped for the evening at their place. 

-Don't assume that "produce" stands means well stocked produce! I didn't purchase any fruit or veggies before leaving, because we were going to "farm" country. But, in Winthrop anyway, it was almost 100% fruit, with maybe a few sweet onions if they happened to be calling themselves a produce stand. That plan failed, but thankfully the grocery store was well stocked. 

-When it's 100+ plan one "thing" a day, do it early, and then spend the rest of the time staying cool and hydrating. 

-Water, water, water! Especially when staying somewhere off grid with no water. We did't run out, but it would have been not fun if we had. Thankfully we were prepared and had plenty of clean water for drinking. Extra propane is a good idea as well. Day 3 of the trip there was a burn ban activated so only propane grilling allowed. Between that, and being off grid for a few days, we powered the refrigerator in the trailer with our propane. Didn't come close to running out, but just a good reminder to always be prepared. 

-Accept that plans may need to change. I was pretty sick for about 5 days, to the point we were going to cut the trip short and come home, and we were all ok with that. No use getting upset, just roll with it. Thankfully on D Day I finally was feeling better. 

-Bed time rules, food rules, don'ts, and no's can all take a little break. It's vacation after all. Loosen up and let everyone have a good time...withing reason of course. 

-E readers are sort of the best thing ever. I read 4 books in 2 1/2 weeks. It was so hot, and buggy in the evenings, that by 6:30 or 7 we were in for the night. Plus, it was get ready for bed/calm down time for Sky. So the three of us would get comfy in the trailer and read, color, or play moos ball. If not for my e reader though I would not have had a big enough selection of books to keep me going. 

-It's ok if regularly scheduled workouts don't happen. Chances are you are doing activities anyway, and doing things outside the norm, for me it was swimming, and getting some exercise anyway. Plus, we all need a break now and then!  

Thank you to Dan O., my cousins, my aunt and uncle, and my Dad (for the quick visit with Sky on our way through town). You all made this trip so memorable for us and we had so much fun!